It is often said that two heads are better than one.
When I was growing up my father often said: If you don't know where you are going, ask somebody. I did not understand, at the time, what he meant. But, as I grew older, I began to realize that he was simply saying: While two heads are better than one, three are more are better.
As children, we often think that we know it all. However, as we grow older, we realize that we will always need help from others, even if it is only to get a different perspective on an issue. It is too late to second guess on "what if's' of your life". So, a as reminder: Seek help, if only to get a different perspective on an issue. There is nothing to lose but a different viewpoint. A perspective that might have saved you from taking the wrong turn in life.
I wish that I had taken my own medicine in several situations. It might have saved me from second guessing so many of my life's WHAT IF'S!
Nevertheless, when it was all said and done, life taught me this:
Just wait
Your Time Will Come
Wait patiently for Him alone,
For my expectation is from HIM
He is my rock and my salvation
He is my defense;
I shall not be moved.
(Psalm 62: 5 – 6)